Talk to me

True, you don't have to blabber all the time, but only when you both have a basis, have that assured feeling.You know she is your girl. I don't have to say a word when she is in my arms, when I sit alongside her and watch the sun set over Nat Geo if its cloudy outside , when we just hold each other's hands. Or just sit for hours together. But for us to be here you have to nurture it first.

This might remain just in my dreams though cause for this to happen it has to be mutual, Thats the important prerequisite :). You dont just feel someone's love cause you happen to love her, when you have been told its not mutual. if you feel that sort of one sided love over a considerably long period of time than probably I would say you are very Lucky or you need to consult a psychiatrist, depending on my philosophical mood at that time. But what could possible go wrong ?

Just sheer misunderstanding, All I can say is, work it out sweetheart, you both are waiting for each other, no need to explain anything, cause there is none, just say that 4 letter word. Everything and everyone is waiting. It has to be direct though, just TO no cc no bcc, one to one, :)

Then
Sometimes we are so correct about ourselves, correct of our notion we don't express it at all. We even go so far as to hide it."My feelings are so pure, why do I have to show it, its not like I dont want to but, how do I express it, cause nothing does justice to the whole spectrum of my feelings. No phrase can, will ever " All I can say is wow. People are so comfortable/convinced of their notion, they will let that relationship slowly come apart, but not express it ."Cause if I express it isn't it like I am doubting this wonderful thing , why do I have to express it, if its good enough it doesn't need it !!!". This is the most ridiculous line I can think of. I cant really comment on this without getting mad.

Then we have ego, too conscious of your image, if this is the case well then it was probably never meant to be. If you are planning to spend the rest of your life together and ego prevents you from proposing it then well, lets end it here.

Then we have people who are still in evaluating mode, To me you would know your girl when you meet her, something in you say yes, if after a considerably long period one of them is still evaluating you, judging you, the judgement will probably last a life time. If he or she doesn't excite you, the blood doesn't rush into your heart, you don't feel restless, Just the sheer presence doesn't make you happy, you don't put on a smile automatically, you dont try too hard and make a fool of yourself. You know what I mean. If all this is not happening still, you may not show it, but if you still don't feel it ,

I feel it in my fingers
I feel it in my toes
Love is all around me
and so teh feeling grows

You know what i mean

If you still havent got it You will probably never get it, or if you get it it will be more of calculative, deliberated, debated feelings contingent to so many facts. I am not sure of this, for the facts could change in future and I will be left high and dry.

Then possibly comes compatibility, You think your habits your life style, your culture, society, language is important and you have had all these dreams from childhood, a picture in your mind, That picture is important for you fair enough, we all live for a dream. Well here there is not really any love to begin with, I mean it will never really start, at every turn you will have doubts , something amiss. One moment you can imagine something very blissfully romantic the other moment it comes crashing down. You wont have problems getting over this, just a beautiful memory really.

Then possibly comes sheer impedance mismatch, two people one in cloud number 9 another in a cubicle, something on those lines, Its an embarrassing mistake really.

But given all this how will you know where you stand, for the first two cases, if its mutual, communicate, you will know on whom the onus lies, it will happen, you cant stop it

Life is quite simple ya !